general anxiety over missing out on experiences or opportunities
Variations
- FOMO'd
- fear of missing out
- FOMO-inducing
Origin
Coined in academic and marketing writing in the early 2000s to describe social anxiety amplified by seeing others' activities online; writer Patrick McGinnis is often credited with popularizing the acronym around 2004, though the feeling itself predates the internet by roughly all of human history.
Examples
Cultural context
Became inseparable from social media discourse, since platforms are essentially engineered to manufacture this exact feeling on a loop; safe to use in casual conversation, therapy sessions, and marketing copy alike, though the marketing usage tends to feel a little predatory once you notice it.
social media behavior
Variations
- FOMO'd out
- fear of missing out
- FOMO spiral
Origin
Coined by venture capitalist Patrick McGinnis in a 2004 Harvard Business School magazine column, originally about missing parties and job opportunities. It didn't become a full-blown diagnosis until smartphones made everyone's highlight reel available in real time.
Examples
Cultural context
Used earnestly by therapists and wellness influencers and self-mockingly by everyone else who knows exactly why they're still scrolling at midnight; safe in almost any register from clinical to casual.
